Many of us have found some good friends in the good old blogging world. You can't necessarily explain why, but there are some friends you meet that you just love and trust like IRL friends. There are many of you that I know well enough to consider friends. And there are a few that just "get" me. And BlueViolet is one of them (yeah, who doesn't love her?) So, when BlueViolet decided to go and.....well, you know if you know her. And, like any good friend, I had to make sure everything was okay in her end of the world. Unfortunately, I like the damn Wizard. So he and I have exchanged a few friendly emails. And in one of the most recent exchanges, I mentioned I wanted the girl to come see me some day, I mean really, her kids are grown....of the two of us I WILL NOT be the one paying for three seats for a stressful day in h-e-double hockey-sticks. But the girl is busy flying off to Wizard-land. Which is TOTALLY cool with me......until the man got a little too lippy for this girl's liking! ;) He said something about my beloved BlueViolet being all HIS!!!! Sigh, he has no idea what this former-sorority girl can do.
So, I started to write him a little message in my last post. I got as far as
Oh , and a little message to a certain Wizard, friend o' the beautiful BV. Haven't you ever heard
Now, if you have a house with kids my age....you know that you are always in a state of distraction. You also know that if you hear both kids giggling, all is fine. If you hear just the little one giggling, there is trouble. Well, the moment I wrote this much...I hear the little girl giggling, and then I see her running across the hall bare-butt with her diaper in her hand. Then I see the little man running across with his underwear on his head, screaming "to infinity and BEYOND!!!"
Yep, go ahead and take a second to try to picture that...I will wait. I decided to figure out what was going on...and then couldn't resist playing for a bit with my beautiful babies!
Needless to say, by the time I got back to my laptop, I thought my post was done. OOOPS! I didn't think twice. And NONE OF YOU MENTIONED IT. (although, I will admit, it said message to him, so I guess yeah for you that you weren't sticking your nose in!) And then I got a message from both of them. On to comedy of errors number two.
So, as I was reading their emails, I heard a freaking sound that could only be the stupid cat PEEING ON MY FREAKING DOWN COMFORTER!!!! What the frick-frack? Hubby forgot to open the cat door!!! GRRRRRR. So, I have washed it before, no big deal, get it in the wash, I was already doing laundry. Glaring at the cats, I shove the comforter in the washer, and then start to fold laundry so I can exercise and then answer my emails. Until I heard IT. You know IT. The sound that can only be disastrous. Yep, washer didn't like comforter today. And as I went to adjust it, I stepped in squishy carpet. Water overflowed. Crap. Run downstairs, because I KNOW. But today, instead of just one light, the water is leaking down from TWO!!! And not the drip....but dripdripdripdripdripdrip, water everywhere. Little lady comes running downstairs, and cartoon-style slips on water, feet over head. And of course, hubby is working!!!
So, needless to say, I ended up doing drying, cleaning etc etc etc. Finished laundry, no workout (I am going to go ahead and consider the extra housework working out today), and no comforter for us tonight. Not too big of a deal....except we are expecting 18 INCHES OF FREAKING SNOW!!!!!!!! And no, I don't care about the snow, don't think it will accumulate that much. What I am worried about is the chilliness! Still, I have the other blankets, I just have to ignore the cat-pee smell. And I can't get the comforter out of the washer to finish my other laundry. Because I didn't have enough to do tomorrow already. Whatever.
At this point, friendship is friendship, but a good blog post....while, you know!
SO, BlueViolet and Otin.....What I meant to say to Mr. Wizard was this
Haven't you heard about the power of girl friendships? You want to be very nice to me. You WANT me on your side, so when you get out of Honeymoon phase, and she writes something like "yeah idiot did this today" or asks us for our opinion on what to do in a situation with you..you want me to say something like "awww, I'm sure it was an accident" or "oh please, girl, my husband does FAR worse". What you DON'T want me to say is "what a jerk, you should not speak to him for three days, and make him make it up to you big time before you go
forgiving him if you know what I mean". When you make a comment she doesn't know how to interpret, I can make it the comment from Heaven or from H-e-double hockey sticks. So share. And be nice. And maybe send me cash or something.